ETIQUETTE AND GROOMING
Scent or suffocate?
That is the question. We say scent. We use cologne to have a pleasant scent, perhaps one to be remembered by, not to kill those around us.
Fragrance is a signature. It can also elevate your mood, enhance your confidence, increase alertness and likability.
There is an overwhelming number of colognes on the market. Our choice of cologne is usually based on our tastes and preferences. However, the true test is how the fragrance works with your body chemistry.
When you go to the store to try out various colognes, you really must spray them on your skin. You can begin your search by smelling the bottle to see if you like the scent. If you do, then spray it on your wrist. It is best to try only two per trial. Otherwise, your nose will get overwhelmed. You might bring someone else to help you decide. Some people suggest bringing a sack of coffee beans to sniff in between tests to neutralize your nostrils. This may be a good idea if you can’t make numerous trips to the mall to test fragrances.
When applying cologne, the key is to be discreet. If you are using spray cologne, use no more than two sprays. If you are using a pour bottle be a “dabber” not a “splasher”: apply it with one finger in various locations such as your neck, elbows, ankles, wrists, behind your knees and ears. These are the points where heat is generated. Applying cologne at these points will make it last longer because these pulse points create a “pump” effect. Spraying your clothes will probably stain them and your scent will be fleeting. Also, do not mix scents, as so many products contain scents – shave creams and gels, aftershave, toners, deodorants/antiperspirants, etc.
Ps. Always remember to apply a moderate amount. The aim is to charm, not choke!
