SEX & DATING

Sex position 101

Research shows that only 26% women reach a climax from the act of intercourse alone. this means tht the remaining 74% need additional stimulation, particularly of the clitoris, in order to reach the said climax.


Some positions offer more clitoral stimulation than others do, in case you're looking for a shortcut to avoid the touching, rubbing and licking.


The Coital Alignment Technique (CAT) is particularly good  for clitoral stimulation and mutual orgasm. It’s a revised missionary position that uses a thrusting and rocking motion to stimulate the clitoris with every motion. Here are instructions on performing this technique.


She lies on her back with you between her legs (as if you were assuming the missionary position). As you enter her, have her wrap her legs around your waist. They should be bent slightly and her ankles should rest on your calves.
Carefully lean forward and rest most of the weight of your body on her. Your own pelvis should be slightly higher than hers.
The shaft of your penis should be firmly pressed against her clitoris. No thrusting from you! Instead she thrusts upwards while you rock slightly backwards.




This will provide the perfect amount of stimulation for her. Rock gently back and forth in sync with each other until orgasm.). Your pelvis should be a bit higher than usual.


Here's a few other positions you could try:


Rear entry - Virtually all rear entry or “doggy style” positions offer easy access to her clitoris for both of you. You control the pace, so slow it down if you’re approaching orgasm and she needs more clitoral stimulation.
Woman on top - From on top she can find the perfect spot to grind her clitoris on you. She can also lean backward and allow you to massage it with your thumb or fingers.
Reverse cowgirl - This is basically the same as woman on top, except she’s facing the other way. This changes the sensations but you both still have access to the clitoris.